Internet Chat Room Safety
A Must Read for All who have children or grandchildren EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ ALL OF THIS and HAVE YOUR CHILDREN READ IT TOO!
The Teenage Chat Room
After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get online She logged on
under her screen name Angelgirl. She checked her Buddy List and saw Tommy2 was on.
She sent him an instant message: Angelgirl: Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone
was following me home today. It was really weird! Tommy2: LOL You watch too much TV. Why
would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighborhood? Angelgirl:
Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see Anybody when I looked out!
Tommy2: Unless you gave your name out online. You haven't done that have you?
Angelgirl: Of course not. I'm not stupid you know. Tommy2: Did you have a
softball game after school today? Angelgirl: Yes and we won!! Tommy2: That's
great! Who did you play? Angelgirl: We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so
gross! They look like bees. LOL
Tommy2: What is your team called? Angelgirl: We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger
paws on our uniforms. They are really cool. Tommy2: Did you pitch? Angelgirl: No I
play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't
want them mad at me. Bye! Tommy2: Catch! you later. Bye
Meanwhile......Tommy2 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When
it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what
he knew about Angel so far. Her name: Shannon Birthday: Jan. 3, 1993 Age: 13 State where she
lived: North Carolina Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall.
Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him He knew she
stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew
she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton
Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at
the Canton Junior High School.
She had told him all this in the conversations they had on line. He had enough information to
find her now. Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the
ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from
the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish
she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so
overprotective.
By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her. Her game was in full
swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She
glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely. He was leaning
against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him.
He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt. After the game, he
sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked
past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew
he had found her.
Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and
once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car. Now he had to wait.
He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a
fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.
Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room. "Shannon,
come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the
room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa. "Sit down," her father began, "this
man has just told us a most interesting story about you." Shannon sat back. How could he tell
her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!
"Do you know who I am, Shannon?" the man asked. "No," Shannon answered. "I am a police officer
and your online friend, Tommy2." Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! Tommy is a kid
my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan!" The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it
wasn't true. You see, Shannon, there are people online who pretend to be kids; I was one of
them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do
it to protect kids from predators
I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people online. You told me
enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. You named the school you went to, the
name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made
finding you a breeze."
Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan?" He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh.
It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?" She nodded. "I had a friend whose
daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she
was home alone.
Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time online. The
wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and a little there. Before you
know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it.
I hope you have learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Please tell others about this so they
will be safe too."
That night Shannon and her Dad and Mom all knelt down together and thanked God for protecting
Shannon from what could have been a tragic situation. They also decided to share their story in
hope it would help others be more careful while chatting on line.
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